As one might say, if you don't like it, say it; but sometimes when you say it, wouldn't it be much worse than usual?
Peace be upon cha! Its already the 2nd month of 2K17! How is it going with your chapters of 2017? Anything bizarre? Cause my chapters are getting bizarre indeed. Hypocrites, I got them. Two faced? Yeah its included. Have you ever seen quotes like 'its surprising how friends can be strangers in a blink of an eye'? I know exactly how it feels like. Recently, Mitsu / Yukki has updated her blog about this topic and I'm going to add in a bit of tips and talk.
All of us might know that it is impossible to actually have the perfect companion since nobody is perfect and everyone has their flaws, their opinions. When one's opinion opposes the other, unsatisfactory will occur which leads to fights, breaking trust and bond. This is one of the reasons why most humans are not compatible to be called a best friend if he / she doesn't find the right match to understand each other's opinion. Keep in mind that everyone has different opinions and you or any of us are not advised to look down at the opinion. Respect it instead. Why?
The answer to that is have you ever thought of why this person thought that way? Have you done background check to understand his / her history? What will you do if you are in his / her shoes? Who are you to look down on opinions? No. You don't know the answer to the questions above, don't you? Instead of judging, stabbing behind their backs, bad mouthing; respect them instead. Because if you do the things like what they did, you're exactly like them. You're not much different.
Moving on, do you remember that friend of yours when you're in the first grade of school? Are you still friends with them? No? Its actually a tragic scenario when you used to be close to someone until you parted, becoming strangers. You'd be lying if you say you never experience this. Do you remember the game you played when you're just a little boy / girl? The game that you said it will be your fav game forever and ever. Is it somewhere dusty?
You can see it for yourself how we, humans, forget what used to be precious to us when we find a new substitute. Easy as that. It became the totally opposite of what we used to say, With that, you shouldn't be surprised when you thought you're going to continue your life with your friend but end up not happening as planned. You shouldn't be surprised when you thought your crush likes you but he / she end up disappearing soon after, doing unknown things behind your back.
Things change. It became the opposite of what you think it'll be.
Enemies can be friends.
Friends can be enemies.
Beware with whom you talk to, whom you tell secrets to, whom you share your day to, because if you get attached to the wrong person; it could be your worst mistake.
Be Cautious !!
